Day facking one: Self worth

It’s the time that you tell yourself:  Stop crying, get out of your bed, look in the mirror and say:  

You can surpass this!

Life may feel like its dwindling or falling apart or you feel like killing yourself to ease the pain (no, I was kidding, no one should ever have that thought in mind) the long and the short of it is, pain is ephemeral. It is healthy to grieve for your losses but then if you overdo it and you start thinking that you don’t have a ghost of a chance to get over it then you will be doomed for life.

But the good thing about life is that when you know your worth then you wouldn’t even consider crying! But of course, most of us are really having a hard time attaining self worth, tell me about it because I’m still dealing with it. Having self worth doesn’t mean to spite people off or be egotistical. it is merely telling yourself everyday that you can’t afford to look ugly because people are judgmental (kidding). Oh by the way self worth and self esteem are different. Self worth is a vital belief of empowering oneself, it is our core of our ability to believe in ourselves through faith, and it comes from the inside. Let us simplify it “if you have it, you won’t commit suicide” as for self esteem the criteria of it comes from the outside (other people) or the better our performance is the higher the esteem awarded to it. Anyways, self worth is vital for us to survive, it let us out of the abyss that we are in and it pulls us up in the twilight.it Make us stop thinking about whether to be between the devil or the deep blue sea.

Life is simple it’s either you fish or you cut bait.